My Man in a Nutshell

There are days - many days - when I wish Hubby could be more understanding, more like a WOMAN. Don't take that wrong. I don't want him to be feminine, but you know how girls just get each other? That's what I want. I want him to know what to say, how to say it, how to touch me, how to hold me, to just know what a girl wants. I want him to think like a WOMAN - think like me.

Then there are days - like today - when he is absolutely PERFECT. I was down in the dumps - probably hormonal - but anyway - he just knew what I needed and it reminded me of why I chose him to be THE ONE in the first place.

Today felt like I was invisible to the world, but I was the only one in the world to him. Sometimes I feel like I'm the luckiest. Hopefully I can remember this moment when I get mad at him for something silly tomorrow.

Love y'all!
Nikka

It's Date Night

So tonight's the night that hubby and I get to act like adults, or at least young lovers (in my dreams). We try to have date night every Wednesday, but it usually works out to be once or twice a month because more often than not something always conflicts and we put our hubby/wife togetherness on the back burner.

Now, here's the thing...

Hubby likes to go to the movies on date night. To me, that's not a date. That's two people sitting in silence immersing themselves onscreen. After the movie ends and reality brings us back, the date is over and it's time to go home. Tell me, how is that romantic?

I like to talk, to cuddle, to enjoy each other. Movie nights are great for first dates or even if we have date night often, but when it's rare that we get time to ourselves, sitting in a movie is that last thing I want. Oh well...gotta make Hubby happy, right?

Tonight we're going to see Eagle Eye. Guess I should be happy that he wants to spend time with me rather than be a cry-baby about what we do.

What's your idea of date night? Are you on Team Nikka or Team Hubby?